Friday, October 13, 2006

Date #1

Getting back into the whole dating scene=difficult. That's the lesson I learned from Date #1.
It's not that it went bad. I think it went well. Girl #1 was cute, I think conversation came easily, she seems interesting and we're looking for the same thing. Why did I think it was difficult?

1. I was nervous
2. While she was attractive, I wasn't really turned on at all...
3. I'm finding it difficult to strike the appropriate balance between being friendly and wanting to get into her pants/dress.

Not that I made a fool of myself. Heck I don't think I did anything risky at all. Maybe that's why #2 never happened. I played it very safe.

The problem is this:
I'm not the kind of person who's going to sleep with someone he just met. At the same time, I don't want a serious relationship. So how/when do I get physical? I don't want to mislead women who want a relationship just to sleep with them. I don't want to hit the bars and sleep with random women. I don't want to end up in the friend zone either. grrr...

That and girl #2, who I really think is hot, hasn't responded since I asked her out. Meh..
This shit is hard work.

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